On expectations and boundaries...

expectation, and boundaries.

it is RIGHT TO HAVE EXPECTATIONS. (especially of people 'in power')

it is RIGHT TO BE OFFENDED WHEN BOUNDARIES ARE IGNORED..

disrespected, transgressed, disregarded, and selfishly/violently trespassed.

There are polarities.

Polarities of power and responsibility in all the 'stations' of human life. 

we are EQUAL 'spirit-soul' characters.

We are 'stuck' in different Job-descriptions and there are 'expectations'. If you were 'cherished' in your youth, cherished and given position/support/ability/empowerment, you are 'more responsible' to put in a performance according to your 'circumstantial treat'. 

 here. POLARITIES...

 different powers... 

 Meditate on these... 

> male & female

> elder & younger.  

Equal souls. Needing love/care/understanding..!!

Does a MALE require the same 'maintenance' as a female?  

Does a CHILD require the same 'maintenance' as an elder? ..Contrariwise!!

These four m/f elder/younger existed in the time of no human depression and death, in the time before the invasion of the 'Selfish death spirit', and the enticement to 'taste evil' as well as good.

(yeah. 'Garden of Eden' is not 'fairytale bs'. Research strangely shows a 'common origin' of all human genetic lineage... back to ONE PAIR. One 'mom and dad' pair. -weirdness- Just like 'flood story' found in every culture... Just like the 'one animal sacrifice per year for family evils' found in every culture..)

More POLARITIES & RESPONSIBILITIES.

> richer & poorer.
> employee & employer
> teacher & student
> guardian & constituent

> spiritually trained and insightful /&/ spiritually untrained and ignorant.

(those who have walked 'in the Spirit' longer /&/ in the Spirit 'lesser')
> skilled one & learner one.

> abused and rejected /&/ pampered and cherished.

it is written...

'To those who have been given much,

much is 'demanded' / much is 'required'.

So be kind and caring enough to STOP and DEMAND BETTER, even to 'break relationship', at times when people are refusing to live up to their ability and calling!

So be kind and caring enough to EXPRESS OFFENSE AND ALARM when boundaries and issues of respect are smashed and broken.

Be willing to 'care for the tribe' by making these declarations...

I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO (APPROPRIATELY) EXPECT YOU TO ...BE... OR ...DO...

"thus and so... in this situation..."

I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO BE (APPROPRIATELY) OFFENDED AND EXPOSE YOUR

" transgression, disrespect, selfishness.. in this situation"

Love and Healing comes.

Not merely through putting on 'tenderness and affection', 

  but also from 'A true word, fitly spoken, well timed and powerful.'